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When Jacques Cousteau first took cameras under water, he opened up an enchanted new world for us to see. When ultrasound was first turned toward the wombs of pregnant women, an even more marvelous world appeared. Sights that had been hidden for ages were now open to our view, and one of the first things we saw was that babies suck their tiny thumbs even before they are born.
Infants are hard-wired to need and enjoy sucking as a separate experience from feeding.
Some babies who do not suck their thumbs can be comforted, stimulated, or put to sleep through pacifier use. This sometimes feels more acceptable to parents because they can control the use of pacifiers. One problem with pacifiers is that young babies cannot find them when they fall out of their mouths, which happens quite frequently. Babies who use pacifiers are dependent on an adult who must understand their needs and respond to them.
Children who suck their thumbs are able to begin at an early age to meet their own need for sucking. These children fall asleep more easily, are able to put themselves back to sleep at night more easily, and sleep through the night much earlier than infants who do not suck their thumbs.
In some babies, the need to suck is more pronounced than in others. Children at any age tend to exhibit the sucking behavior most when they are tired, bored, or in need of comfort.
For children in the first year of life, sucking to fall asleep or for comfort is self-limiting and wonderful. If they are sucking their thumbs simply because they are bored or are "zoned out," it is a good idea to distract them by handing them something interesting to hold on to, without even mentioning their thumbs. Until your baby is old enough to reason with, any pressure applied against thumb-sucking will only turn a natural developmental phase into an ingrained habit.
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Many parents are worried that their children won't stop thumb-sucking at the appropriate age. The great majority of children stop thumb-sucking spontaneously as they get caught up in learning new skills and no longer need to be stimulated or comforted by sucking. The sucking need usually diminishes by around 9 months. Most children have finished with sucking their thumbs by their first birthdays.
But behavior that is adorable in one so young can be a concern in an older child.
How old is too old?
According to the American Dental Association, thumb-sucking does not cause permanent problems with the teeth or jaw line unless it is continued beyond 4 to 5 years of age. As it turns out, somewhere between 85 and 99 percent of children have finished thumb sucking spontaneously before this period.
If your child has not spontaneously stopped thumb-sucking by the time she is talking, there are ways to actively encourage her to stop.
Children have control of their own thumbs when you are not looking. Pressure applied against thumb sucking can turn a natural developmental phase into an ingrained habit.
Instead, you want to create an environment where she chooses to stop on her own.
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