Why so picky???

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Kia Robertson is a mom and the creator of the Today I Ate A Rainbow kit; a tool that helps parents establish healthy eating habits by setting the goal of eating a rainbow of fruits and vegetables every day.

Trying to feed a picky eater is not a very fun task...I know because I do it every day...with myself! When I was little I'd go so far as to pick the grated carrots out of carrot cake...my poor mom had it rough! It's challenging to be a picky eater and a parent who knows the importance of setting a good example when it comes to healthy eating. If you aren't a picky eater it must be hard to understand why someone can be so difficult to feed! Let me give you some insider tips to keep in mind:

1. Texture Texture Texture: Did I mention texture?! This is a big one...try serving your picky eater fruits and veggies in different forms and textures. For example I don't like cooked peas...but I love them raw! Texture can be one of the biggest issues for a picky eater; finding out what textures they like will be very useful information for you! Maybe they like crunchy or perhaps bumpy textures like broccoli. Every picky eater is different! So if your child turns their nose up at steamed carrots try raw slices instead or maybe grated carrots! Adding a little dip might help too!

2. Serve a New Food with a Favorite: This makes a picky eater feel comfortable knowing there is something they like on their plate. I do this with food that isn’t my favorite but I know is good for me; I can handle eating steamed cauliflower if I can mix it with rice!

3. Serve Small Portions: Trying a new food can be far less intimidating when it's just a small bite or two. If they like the food they can always go back for more...if they don't like it (after trying at least one bite) then at least they can feel proud to have eaten most of their portion of the new food! The goal is to create successes for your picky eater. Getting them to try one bite is worth celebrating!

4. Make it fun: Kids want to have fun its part of what makes them such great people to be around! So when you want to get your kids on board for something try making a game out of it! Look at your kitchen through the eyes of your little one and suddenly the salad spinner becomes a merry-go-round for lettuce and the sink turns into a carwash for vegetable shaped vehicles! Use mini cookie cutters to cut out fun shapes in fruits and vegetables. Keeping things light and fun will help your picky eater be more open to trying new things!

Leave a comment on the creative ways you feed your picky eater!

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November 29, 2010
Note: This Perspectives Blog post is written by a Guest Blogger of DrGreene.com and is provided in order to offer a variety of thoughtful points of view. The opinions expressed on this Perspectives Blog post do not reflect the opinions of Dr. Greene or DrGreene.com. As such, Dr. Greene and DrGreene.com are not responsible for the accuracy of the information supplied. This post is used under Creative Commons License CC BY-ND 3.0.
 
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Anonymous's picture

Today I Ate A Rainbow kit has helped us

Thanks for this great article. Today I Ate A Rainbow kit has helped us get into better eating habits with my 3 yr old. It's a struggle sometimes but some days are better. My son is eating Kale chips thanks to Kia's suggestion. He is also eating new fruits as well. We are taking it slowly so I am hopeful. Thanks, Michelle
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A picky eater

We really haven't had any trouble getting our son to eat veggies and fruits. I never feed him jar food and he got to explore and taste the food we were eating. Now he is three and eats just about anything. If he turns his nose up at something, we use reverse psychology...."You better not eat that!" Then he tries it!
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Making It Fun!

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Hi Kia, I love all of your ideas and will share them with others for sure; but especially the idea of making it fun. I have invented a game that makes it fun for kids to actually plan the meals first. It puts them in control of making the choices of foods presented by you, based on their preferences and what you have on hand. A planner is provided for each age group in Canada's Food Guide so when they plan they are making healthy choices. The first chart is for 2 - 3 year olds, toddlers love to learn and it is the beginning of a learning journey of a very important life skill. It is very visual, hands on manipulation of food pictures to stick on a reusable daily planning chart. Good for all ages and abilities. Kids love it and parents love the results when they use The Eating Game.

Thank you Dr. Greene!

I am so thrilled for this opportunity to share my thoughts on your website Dr. Greene! It's been fun to read all the comments on here and on facebook and twitter!

Today I Ate a Rainbow Kit

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Kia, great post and so fun having you here. Love your insight that tiny portion sizes of new foods are so much more inviting -- and less scary.
Anonymous's picture

picky eating

i don't have a picky eater but i have a 3 year old who loves to help in the kitchen. Sometimes it gets tiring of thinking of things she can do to help that is age appropriate. Having the sink as a car wash is a really cool idea! She will love that..maybe she can help with the clean up now too :) Thanks
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I love the idea about serving

I love the idea about serving a new food with a favourite! How about ketchup. Haha, just kidding. We have the Today I Ate a Rainbow kit and we love it! Thanks for more great tips Kia!

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Sauces

When kids have a physical fear response to a new food, it's a combination of the newness (they haven't learned to like it yet) and the assumption that it tastes bad (for most kids, new foods are guilty until proven innocent). By serving a new food with a favorite, as Kia suggests, you can help tackle both problems at once. And if there is a sauce or spice combo or condiment that a child loves - even ketchup - it can make the new food seem less new and tastier, with the favorite as the dominant flavor until it can be gradually reduced when the new food no longer feels new.

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Condiments

Great point Dr. Greene! Ketchup is a favorite among many kids so if that's what it takes to make them feel comfortable to eat a veggie then so be it! One mom emailed me to say that her 2 yr old loved ketchup with everything so when she let him dip his green beans in the ketchup he would actually eat them! He also wanted to share his wonderful creation with his mommy so she had to take a bite and let him know it was indeed yummy even though she really thought it was terrible :)
Anonymous's picture

Great wisdom!

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How great to be able to see through the eyes of a picky eater. I'm a great fan of Kia's suggestions, as well as the wonderful Rainbow Kit. Thanks Kia, and thanks Dr. Greene for having Kia's input on your blog.
Anonymous's picture

Why So Picky?

Thank you Kia and Dr. Greene for sharing such a great article with lots of useful tips and suggestions. My kids love Kia's Rainbow Kit but I need to do a better job at introducing more foods into their meals. I must admit that my husband and I could do a better job - I wonder sometimes if that they are not so much "picky eaters", but that we are too scared and hate to admit - lazy to try new things and simply rely on their favourites. Now, in addition to the kit, we have some practical and easy solutions to try over the coming weeks and months. I will be printing your article and posting on my fridge as a daily reminder. I am looking forward to reading more of your entries.
Anonymous's picture

Thank you for the texture tip!

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Great suggestions Kia, my daughter is a picky eater and reading about texture made me start thinking of new ways to re-introduce some foods to her in "new" ways. Keep up the good work!
Anonymous's picture

why so picky

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What a great article! As parents we need to try harder to train our children to eat well and not give up so easy and resort to quick less healthy options. Our bodies want to eat good food and crave good healthy food but we are easily untrained by potent sugars and simple carbs and sodium in processed foods. We need to re-train our kids. Dr. Tim Wood
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Picky Eater

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My daughter is thirteen years old and is a picker eater. I like of Kia’s suggestions. It gives me some options to work with. Thank you for the great help Kia! Ken Flanders Abbotsford, BC Canada
Anonymous's picture

Today I Ate a Rainbow Fan!!

I love this information for kids. We want our children to eat in a healthy way but forcing them to eat is not the solution. These suggestions from Kia really honor the child as a discriminating eater, not as someone bad for not eating their fruits and vegetables. I have three kids so understand the challenges of getting your children to eat well and create a healthy food menu for the rest of their lives, so great insight, I appreciated the information and suggestions. I also LOVE the Today I Ate a Rainbow Kit, it is a fun and informative way for children to be accountable to their bodies and give them some control, that they often don't feel over their diets. Thanks!!
Anonymous's picture

Great Tips!

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As a mom to a *super* picky 2 year-old, THANK YOU for such great tips. It had never occurred to me before to offer a super small portion of a new food so as not to overwhelm. I'm looking forward to reading the rest of the posts...sometimes it's so hard when you want to do what's best for your child nutritionally, but they aren't always quite so game.
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Great Ideas!

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There are some great ideas in this article! Easy, simple steps to take! Taking the first step to commit is always the most difficult, but turns out to be the most rewarding! Thanks Kia!
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I have gotten my kids to eat

I have gotten my kids to eat new foods by introducing them when they have friends over. Usually the friends will really like the item and this makes my kids interested in wanting to try it too. (good peer influence) I encourage re-introducing foods too..my 10 year old just discovered last night he now likes beets!!! Only took me 10 years haha...don't force it but don't give up. Even as adults we should try to re-introduce what maybe was forced on us..for me its mushrooms, and I am learning to love them..slowly.
Anonymous's picture

Texture is right! My 4 kids

Texture is right! My 4 kids LOVE LOVE LOVE frozen peas, but refuse to eat them any other way. As soon as those puppies thaw out, they want nothing to do with them. Yet, they act like I am giving them candy when I break out the frozen peas. Silly kids! http://www.queenofbrusselsprouts.blogspot.com
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respecting preferences

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I appreciated the great respect for children's individaul preferences, while encouraging new taste experiences demonstrated in the blog by Kia Robertson. Well done! Jim
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Picking Eating

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I have a couple of picky eaters in my day home, and honest to goodness, we use the Today I Ate A Rainbow kit at EVERY meal!! It has been one of the smartest purchases I've made for the kids!! It's hilarious to watch them shiver at the site of a piece of broccoli, but when I remind them that they can put a magnet on the rainbow chart, they somehow get it down! It's amazing! Thanks for this post - I'm always trying to learn fun and new ways to get the kids eating their rainbows!!
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Thank you!

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As a mom and a teacher (I know I sound like a commercial) I absolutely love using the Rainbow Kit as an educational tool for all my munchkins! We do have the pleasure of feeding a picky eater in our house this post (as well as the kit) offers great value to a family like ours! This creates great habits for kids and our picky eater is still able to eat a rainbow everyday! Thanks Kia!!