My Breast Cancer Story: Let's Start at the End

Cheryl Greene is the Co-founder and Executive Producer of DrGreene.com. She is on the Board of Directors of the Society for Participatory Medicine and X2HN (Women Healthcare Executives Network). Her Facebook profile says it all -- Wife, partner, mother, lover of life.

On September 8, 2009 I went to my doctor for my annual physical. I'm very diligent about getting my regular checkup because I have a history...

On March 22, 1996 I was diagnosed with stage three inflammatory breast cancer and given months to live. This doctor, my gynecologist, has been with me the entire time - she was my doctor even before the diagnosis, back when I was struggling with infertility and trying to have a baby. She was the very person who diagnosed the breast cancer. She is a phenomenal physician and a very trusted advisor, and now she is a friend.

During my last visit, my doctor, my friend, looked at my charts and my paperwork, then turned to me and said some of the most beautiful words I've ever heard.

"We can now call you cured."


Taken on Cheryl 50th birthday -- 
a day she was told she'd never see.

My breast cancer is gone. Done. Over. Nonexistent. We don't have to use words like "remission" or "no evidence of disease" or talk about a "probability of recurrence." This cancer that almost took me away from my children and my husband is truly cured. And just like I remember that day in 1996 when this same woman told me I had a deadly form of breast cancer, I will forever remember the day she told me I was cured.

I actually haven't told many people about my latest news yet because I wanted to share it here in the DrGreene.com community. It's Breast Cancer Awareness Month, and I know there are many women - too many women - out there right now who have concerns about breast cancers. Perhaps you're putting off a mammogram, or maybe you've found a lump and are waiting for news. Some of you are probably going through treatment right now, and I'm sad to say I know more than a few of you have lost loved ones to this disease.

I wanted to tell my story publicly on DrGreene.com for a number of reasons. First, my diagnosis of breast cancer was one of the reasons Dr. Greene and I changed our lifestyles and dedicated ourselves to sharing health information via DrGreene.com. Second, my experience as a cancer patient taught me important lessons about how patients need to participate in their own healthcare. And third, because I want to spread the word that people can live through a fatal diagnosis, even when the odds seem overwhelming.

My doctor told me that when she talks to other women with breast cancer, she calls me her poster child. What I had was supposed to be fatal, and if I can beat that cancer, others can, too.

Share your story... how has breast cancer affected your life?

Tomorrow's Post... Getting the Diagnosis: All You Hear is "Cancer"

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October 12, 2009
Note: This Perspectives Blog post is written by a Guest Blogger of DrGreene.com and is provided in order to offer a variety of thoughtful points of view. The opinions expressed on this Perspectives Blog post do not reflect the opinions of Dr. Greene or DrGreene.com. As such, Dr. Greene and DrGreene.com are not responsible for the accuracy of the information supplied. This post is used under Creative Commons License CC BY-ND 3.0.
 
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Anonymous's picture

Courageous and inspiring!!

Both you and Alan are so courageous and inspiring! This is an incredible, compelling story and I thank you, thank you for sharing it with all of us! It's never easy to share such a personal story, even if the ending is triumphant, but there is so much to learn. I am thrilled that you are cured and look forward reading the rest of your story. Tawny Buck
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Cancer Free

How wonderful you are now Cancer free. My sister just went through this ordeal last year. At the same time her husband had prostate cancer. I am very happy you can now be at peace and are living a healthy life. I love to read Dr. Greene's recipes and all the info he shares. Very happy to be facebook friends with both of you. :) Linda
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Congratulations!

Wow. I'm all teary. So glad it all worked out for you, and that I was able to have the honor of meeting you.

I can't believe it's been 14 years!

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I have so many special days in my life, but one of them is March 22. It's a day I can never forget. March 22, 1996 is the day I heard "I'm sorry. You have cancer."

According to my doctors, I wasn't going to see March 22, 1997. But I knew I had too much to live for -- a great relationship, a brand new baby, and a mission in life -- giving parents around the world the help they needed through DrGreene.com.

Today, March 22, 2010 my "baby" is taller than I am. For my birthday last month he gave me ballroom dancing lessons for the two of us so we could learn to dance together for his wedding. Talk about planning ahead!

Today the sun is shinning. The birds are singing and I'm going to celebrate just being alive.

Cheryl... thank you... for

Cheryl... thank you... for fighting so hard 14 years ago, for having the courage to endure the hell you had to go through - for yourself, for Austin, for Doc, for nameless women everywhere, and for me --- who otherwise would not have been able to know you as a friend

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Truddle -- It's hard to

Truddle -- It's hard to believe that we didn't meet each other until just after I had finished treatment. I feel like I've known you forever. Thanks for being a wonderful person and a great friend.

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Vicky -- Later in the week I

Vicky -- Later in the week I talk about the importance of being really involved in your own care. We're involved in new non-profit organization called the Society for Participatory Medicine that promotes patients, families, and healthcare providers working together. I believe that was an important part of my cure. I hope you all are able to do that with your brother. The battle is tough, but so much easier with that approach. C~
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Cheryl- wow, thank you so

Cheryl- wow, thank you so much for telling me to check out your blog....I am so glad I wrote you yesterday or I would not have known. What amazingly fantastic news. You seemed to have had the perfect "antidote" for a cure-- great medical treatment, supportive family and friends, and above all, a incredible outlook. You are indeed a poster child! I have a brother battling cancer now-- this inspires.
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Tracy -- It is great news!

Tracy -- It is great news! We're pretty darn thrilled. I love you, too. Aunt C~
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Teri -- Thank you and thanks

Teri -- Thank you and thanks for all your support. We are so appreciative of all you do. It's wonderful having you on the DrGreene.com team!
Anonymous's picture

Aunt Cheryl, Great news. So

Aunt Cheryl, Great news. So glad you fought so hard...you are such an amazing person! I love you. ~Tracy
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I have such a lump in my neck

I have such a lump in my neck thinking about how wonderful you are! you are my real life hero!! Congrats!
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Glynna, I couldn't have done

Glynna, I couldn't have done it without you! You are the world's best sister, for sure!!!
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Claire Darlin' It is such

Claire Darlin' It is such great news. We haven't done anything yet to officially celebrate. Can't wait to celebrate with you!
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Janelle, Thanks for sharing

Janelle, Thanks for sharing your story. We need as many stories with great outcomes as we can get. Keep sharing it to encourage others. C~
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CJ -- I KNOW how important

CJ -- I KNOW how important support is to healing and I had so much amazing support. Alan was my rock. For a year the nurses from the hospital where he practiced brought us dinner every night. And my amazing sister (the world's best sister) took off work for six weeks the year I was in treatment to come and stay with us when I was at my lowest points. I couldn't have done it without being surrounded by love and care. MsGreene
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Beth — I love “people around

Beth — I love “people around me are fighting cancer and they’ve done it by taking control”. I’m going to share about this later this week, but I think that’s critical to a good outcome. I’m part of a movement called Participatory Medicine. It’s all about being a vital part of the team, but more on that later. MsGreene
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Cheryl, We are thrilled

Cheryl, We are thrilled beyond words at your amazing outcome. Although the news was bleak those many years ago, we never gave up hope. And you.....you always saw the glass half full. The treatments weren't easy but were well worth it. You worried that Austin would remember you bald. Well, how about wrinkles and gray hair !! ha And, yes, I HAVE had my mammogram recently. Thank you for being you and having the courage to fight this disease and to fight for the cure ! You GO Girl !! Love,, Glynna
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Heather -- Thanks for letting

Heather -- Thanks for letting me know my story has been an inspiration to others. That is very rewarding. I've been thinking of you and your health a lot lately. Please be sure to let us know the outcome of your time with your surgeon!
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Cheryl, The DrGreene

Cheryl, The DrGreene community so lucky to have you, but not as blessed as we are back home. I miss you and the office and snail fights, but this perspective blog helped me realize that a few Cheryl-lacking months aren't so bad after all. It is WONDERFUL to hear that the only cancer-related word left is "cure", I hope to celebrate that with you soon. Thank you for inspiring women everywhere and inspiring me. Can't wait to see you this weekend! Claire
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Congratulations Cheryl! What

Congratulations Cheryl! What wonderful news and what a tremendous story. My own mother was diagnosed when I was only 5 - back when it was still a relatively new disease. The doctors didn't even tell her what stage she was in, but she underwent the most aggressive treatment available (which has left her immune system in disrepair ever since). Years later she accessed her files and saw she was in the final stages when they found it. We wept. How close my family came to losing her. How very, very different my life would have been. But, like you, she beat it. She's cured. And she's been spreading her joy and love in this world for almost 30 years they probably didn't expect.
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This is such great news,

This is such great news, congrats and thanks for sharing with the community! Over the years I have often wondered what part medical and what part attitude was responsible for your cure. Certainly, the love that Alan had for you in the way he supported you was amazing, very clear that he cherised you from such a deeper place. Yet I have known many women with similiar opportunities, but didn't have the emotional support and that just has to make the biggest difference in the world! And I always remember your motto when my own health gets down: I will be a grandmother some day. Now that's something to aspire to! Thank you for sharing your news and especially thank you for sharing yourself. You are such an amazing woman and I'm blessed to have met you in my lifetime.
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Congratulations Cheryl!

Congratulations Cheryl! You're an inspiration!
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Cheryl, your story inspires.

Cheryl, your story inspires. I think the key to your survival is your inability to see the diagnosis as the only option. Strong people around me are fighting cancer, and they've done it by taking control of their own health. As I tell my friends and family, "YOU are the one who is most interested in your health. As much as other people love you, YOU are the one who needs to love yourself the most -- enough to keep fighting and looking for better days." Thank you so much for being brave enough to fight AND to share your story. Looking forward to the other posts.
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What a timely post, I have an

What a timely post, I have an appointment this week with the surgeon. I don't know how many people I've shared your story with, some just with a link and a quick note about if they are interested and some with a long chat sitting at their bedside when are confused because everything inside of them is saying to fight when everyone around them is telling them to go enjoy their time left. Thank you so much for sharing your story, it's touched more people's lives than you can imagine. ~Heather