ok, everyone knows our grandbabe Nono is a total Nana's boy!! He is 18 months and the light of my life, but there is one problem, that actually is concerning me a bit.
I can not leave him without him screaming and crying and his lil world falling apart, cuz his nana just left him. He does great when his parents drop him off and he could care less when they leave...he's at nana and papas it is more fun!
When they come pick him and Lil Miss up, he screams cuz he doesnt want to leave. He reaches his arm out to me and just bawls for nana.
When I go to their house and leave and he sees me or even knows that I have went out the door he screams and we can hear it half way down the block! Papa asked yesterday, was that Nono screaming, cuz I had just left.
It's like in his lil mind he lives at nana and papas, and just visits at his house.
I know kids get anxiety from parents leaving and being seperated,but this is crazy!!
I do have them alot watching him and Lil Miss, and at first it was just Nono before sister came along, so he had all of our attention, and in fact he still does. He does make it hard to hold Lil Miss cuz he does not want to share Nana at all! I reassure him nana has enough love for them both.
I don't make a point to go to their house everyday the kids aren't here just cuz I know how he will scream and its ok to be apart from nana, he has to know that. But I have never seen a grandbabe so attatched to nana!! How much is actually normal??
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