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  • Sleep problems   15 hours 44 min ago

    Thank you very much for the info!

  • Do you allow yourself a pajama day?   1 day 3 hours ago

    The boys and I love to hang around in our 'jammas on the rare occasion that we have nothing to do that day :)

  • Bipolar 8 year old??????   2 days 9 hours ago

    You might also be interested in the indepth report we have on site located at:
    http://www.drgreene.com/adam/depth-reports/bipolar-disorder

  • Vesicoureteral Reflux   2 days 10 hours ago

    Hi Dr. Greene,

    From 5-7 yrs old I had multiple kidney infections and my doctor performed surgery to correct the reflux. I also had scarring on one of my kidneys as a result. Currently, I'm 23 yrs old and have been sick for years. What sort of conditions can arise from scarring of the kidney as a child? I just want to see if I can find some answers. Thank you!!!!

  • Sleep problems   2 days 11 hours ago

    The sleep problems you are experiencing are very very typical for this age. Most kiddos hit a developmental growth spurt at around 6-8 months. This includes a lot of new motor skills (like rolling over and crawling). When these things happen it is very exciting for the baby, and this excitement can bleed over into sleep. It's similar to when an adult starts a new job, or becomes involved in a new romatic relationship. These things can keep us awake at night as well. The sleep crawling is very evident of this. He's so excited about getting around on his own that he is probably dreaming about crawling! As for not sleeping on his tummy: Now that he is able to roll over and (I'm assuming) has the ability to lift his head up off the ground while on his tummy, it is probably ok to let him sleep like that. The real danger is for very young babies (2-4 months) who do not have that neck control and cannot lift their head up. Of course, there are differing opinions so if you feel it's best to keep him sleeping on his back you can try to prop him up with pillows or better yet, foam wedges. Do an internet search for "back to sleep campaign". There are plenty of resources out there on this subject.

  • Bipolar 8 year old??????   2 days 16 hours ago

    Here's some info. I found on the web: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bipolar_disorder_in_children

  • Minding the Chatter Clears Clutter   2 days 16 hours ago

    Learning spacious detachment was forced upon me this past summer. I am not sure of the time frame, but it was somewhere between two and three weeks.

    I was thrust into a situation within seconds, where the thoughts were coming fast and furious. Auto pilot took over and organized those thoughts into list form --- much the same as if you were creating a grocery list. Having this metal list organized into point form allowed me to do the things I needed to do.

    The situation? The passing of my mother.

    Although things happened really fast, we had been preparing for this time for over a year, so it really was not a surprise to any of us, but the swiftness of the moment still took us all by surprise, and then things needed to be done.

    “You can go, we will be ok – please don’t go I am not ready for this – I have to be strong to hold up my brother, my father, my children – I need to get a list of people to call – I need to call people – I need to make the arrangements – I need to plan the memorial luncheon – I will make things my mother liked – I need to clean the house - I need to write a eulogy – I cannot speak at the memorial – I need to focus - I just need to get through the memorial… I just need to get through the memorial… I just need to get through the memorial” An organized clutter of thoughts consumed me --- pulled me through the fog of grief that had settled….and then the memorial was done. There was nothing left to organize, nothing left to do…

    With the memorial over I sat outside, allowing the summer breeze to soften the thoughts of my mind… and as I sat my mind did go blank… no thoughts, no lists, just silence --- it really was heaven. When I came into the house several hours had passed, when it had felt like it had only been a few minutes – my first spacious detachment.

    In the (almost) 8 months since my mother’s passing, and with the heavy fog of grief lifted, I have visited that quiet space of no time, on several occasions. Although the time spent there is not as long as it was the very first time, it is no less healing, no less glorious, no less heaven.

  • Cultivating Simplicity   2 days 17 hours ago

    He'll be thrilled to hear it! Says it's a good way to save space, which saves paper, which saves trees. (Along with printing less, of course!)

  • Minding the Chatter Clears Clutter   3 days 8 hours ago

    What a wonderful experience. It does sound like heaven ... on day 14 :)

    I found something different that brought everything into the present for me -- being diagnosed cancer and told I only had months to live. I would have preferred two weeks in the most beautiful place on earth, but the result was the same and well worth the cost.

  • Self-Care and Clutter Clearing Go Together: Ten Ways to Lighten Up by Feeling Good   3 days 15 hours ago

    I am so tickled by everyone's comments to my posts this week. Thank you all.

    Inspired by Cheryl's reply, here are the songs that lift me up every time (read: major goosebumps!):

    1) "Golden" by Jill Scott. I feel not only uplifted but expanded in a very spacious way. She's such a goddess when she sings it. It's hard not to feel powerful.

    2) "Amazing" by a group named "One EskimO." I just discovered this song; a beautiful reminder of how how amazing we are, especially when we recognize our oneness.

  • petit mal seizures   4 days 5 hours ago

    My daughter has them, and they've never shown up during any of the 3 EEG's we've had done. Hers are just brief staring spells. She's had 4 seizures that caused her entire body to stiffen, and they scared her tremendously. She has been on seizure meds for a year now and that seems to help with the frequency and duration of the seizures. Her neurologist does want to admit her for a 24 hour video eeg test to confirm the diagnosis.

  • Bipolar 8 year old??????   4 days 5 hours ago

    I have her. She's 6. Only difference is her behavior is worse away from home, especially if it's a crowded place with lots of stimuli. Mine has been diagnosed with early-onset bipolar disorder.

  • Morning leg pain causing my 3 1/2 year old son grief   4 days 5 hours ago

    Try giving him bananas to eat throughout the day. Two or three a day would be good if you can get him to eat that many. Bananas are a great source of potassium, and a deficiency can cause leg cramps.

  • strange sweet smell around head   4 days 6 hours ago

    Have her blood sugar checked by her pediatrician.A sweet smell is common in diabetes. At the very least, it would be good to rule it out.

  • sex   4 days 6 hours ago

    Of course it's normal to still want to have sex even though you don't have parental approval. That doesn't mean it's ok or healthy. Your mother doesn't want you having sex because she knows you are not yet mature enough to fully comprehend, let alone handle, the consequences. You really should learn more about your own body before engaging in sexual activities again. And for the sake of your own health, if you choose to continue having sex, make sure the boy wears a condom. Take charge of your own body and have a supply of condoms in case he 'forgets' and never NEVER allow a boy to skip the condom.

  • milk formula feeding   4 days 6 hours ago

    Be glad your 10 month old is wanting to wean! Better than being 4 and still walking around with a bottle. Try offering formula, water, or juice from a sippy cup. Get one with handles on both sides to give her a boost at learning to handle the cup. If her appetite is good for real food, that's great! Make sure to feed her a well-balanced diet and she'll be fine. All kids go through periods of food rejection (my youngest loved peanut butter and ate nothing but pb sandwiches for a month, and now won't touch them) and single food phases, where they only want a very limited selection of foods or drinks. That's common and normal. But don't worry, she will be fine! If you are super concerned and it makes you feel better, try offering her a kids nutritional drink or a kids multivitamin.

  • Cultivating Simplicity   4 days 7 hours ago

    Theresa -- tell your husband I'll give him my "extra space between sentences", too. Maybe we can change the (content management) world, one space at a time.

  • Cultivating Simplicity   4 days 7 hours ago

    I take your challenge (and this is a true confession) I have trouble flossing on a regular basis. By the time bedtime comes around, I'm over the edge, but for the next week I'm going to floss once a day and see if it can become a wonderful habit.

    Anyone else ready to take the challenge?

  • Cultivating Simplicity   4 days 8 hours ago

    It's fun and enlightening to try this in relationship too. Every once in a while my husband and I will do a trade - last time he asked me to stop putting double spaces between sentences (as a content management guy, that really bugs him), and I asked him to open the wet bath towel fully before hanging it. Sounds silly, but I smile every time I skip the extra space and every time I see the uncrumpled towel - makes me feel like we're re-committing to the relationship, like we're being deliberately mindful of each other.

    Looking forward to trying this with our living space too.

  • What are Night Terrors?   4 days 9 hours ago

    My 18 month old just had what I thought was a night terror during his nap, while the dog barked at the door. I now can see the difference between the confusion arousal and the true night terror. It is terrifying to watch him struggle in this unconcious like state and it only gets worse when I try to help him. I noticed that during his fit he wet his diaper and soon after did calm down. Interesting observation. I am worried that these episodes are starting so early, I hope it isn't a sign that they might get worse as he ages. This is the third episode he has had, the other two at night, an hour or so after he went down.

  • ear tubes   4 days 9 hours ago
    Have you read Dr. Greene's in depth article on ear infections and Ear Tubes? If not, you will find it to be very helpful.
  • Sleeping Patterns   4 days 10 hours ago
    DrGreene has a great article that exactly describes what you're talking about and what to do about it. It's called Infant Sleep Changes. Hope that helps!
  • Sleeping Patterns   4 days 11 hours ago

    Has anything new happened with her? Has she started crawling or sitting up, etc.? Generally around this time there is a leap in development and because of the excitement of learning new things babies don't sleep as well. Also, was your vacation in an area with a time zone different to yours? This could have an effect on her sleeping patterns just as it does with adults. Just a few thoughts!

  • How long does it take once the mononucleosis virus enters a body for it to take effect?   4 days 11 hours ago

    From the CDC website: "The incubation period, or the time from infection to appearance of symptoms, ranges from 4 to 6 weeks."

    From what I know, the Epstein-Barr Virus (that causes Mono) can be caught in childhood and then only comes about as a cold. When it is caught in adolescence, the symptoms are more severe. It also depends on the person. I caught mono in college and missed a whole semester. The virus also remains dormant in your body for the rest of your life.

    Here is the whole article: http://www.cdc.gov/ncidod/diseases/ebv.htm

  • ear tubes   4 days 11 hours ago

    I'm not saying it's not possible, but I have never heard of fluid causing permanent damage to a child's hearing. I would think the pressure of the fluid would have to be pretty high for that to happen. Even (or especially) if the pressure was high, the eustacian tubes should do their job and drain the fluid out of the ears. Generally, when a child has fluid on their ears, it keeps the ear drum from moving like it should, thus making it sound as if your underwater. During early stages of development, this can affect speech development. It's a good thing that you are getting tubes placed so early!